Fwd: Grow closer to God and your spouse

From: Kathy Keller, Gospel in Life <support@gospelinlife.com>

Date: Wed, Jun 5, 2024 at 7:02 PM
Subject: Grow closer to God and your spouse

Discover daily wisdom for your marriage in The Meaning of Marriage: A Couple's Devotional

View this email in your browser Over the years, Tim and I were asked a wide variety of questions about marriage — from how to have a healthy view of marriage as a single person to how to strengthen a marriage. When we first began working together on our book, The Meaning of Marriage, we reflected on years of being married to each other and the peaks and valleys we experienced. We considered how God worked on our weaknesses through our relationship. We also thought back on the questions we encountered in ministry while working with many people to help strengthen their marriages. We wanted to see marriages that thrived and that enabled both husband and wife to grow in their relationship with God. One of our favorite metaphors for cultivating a healthy marriage was to look at it like a garden. In 1 Corinthians 3, Paul likens the Church to a garden: you've got to water, fertilize, weed, prune, and eventually, you eat the fruit of your labors. Gardens take an enormous amount of work. Your marriage is not like sod that you buy and bring home and roll out, ready to walk on. Your marriage is not like flowers that you buy at the store. The difference between the fruitful marriage you can and should have, and the marriage you start out with is as far removed as an apple tree is from the apple seed.  It takes an enormous amount of skill and attention to cultivate a marriage, no matter the weather, no matter the season. Your marriage is going to need enormous amounts of attention, or it will wither. For the first 26 years of our marriage, Tim and I didn't pray together, we didn't have family devotions, and outside of being at church, we didn't do anything together spiritually unless there was a big crisis. It wasn't until we finally came to the end of our resources that we realized we were going to have to pray together or we were never going to survive. So we promised that before falling asleep at night, we would hold hands and pray. After we started to do this, we have seen everything else in our spiritual life branch out and grow slowly. Tim and I did not have the perfect marriage….for one thing, no such thing exists when one sinner marries another. But indwelling sin caused us to miss opportunities to comfort and affirm each other, made me overly critical ("I'm just trying to be helpful!") and Tim overly sensitive, and allowed us to miss opportunities to encourage and affirm one another. On the bright side, our sons have told us that seeing us apologize and repent to one another was a major factor in them taking our faith seriously. Just days before Tim's death we were still repenting to one another. As Tim said in The Meaning of Marriage, we are one day in heaven going to see one another and exclaim, "I always knew you could be like this!" Marriage is a powerful vehicle by which God allows us to help one another become who He means us to be. Tim and I wrote both The Meaning of Marriage book and later a 365-day couple's devotional (with the same title), to help people see the way God uses marriage to shape us and how a marriage centered on God and his Word can grow and flourish. In the month of June, Gospel in Life is highlighting The Meaning of Marriage: A Couple's Devotional. We designed the book for married couples to use together. In it, we highlight passages from The Meaning of Marriage, but we also added a great deal of new content which will provide the opportunity for you to think out the personal implications of one very specific aspect of Christian marriage each day — like dealing with self-centeredness, or understanding marriage as a covenant, or serving each other and reconciling when there are rough patches in your relationship. If you'd like daily wisdom for your marriage, request The Meaning of Marriage: A Couple's Devotional when you give to Gospel in Life in June. It's our thanks for your gift to help us reach more people with the love of Christ. A Christian marriage needs to be about spiritual growth and each spouse helping the other to grow into Christlikeness. If we aim at holiness for each other, happiness will come; if we aim primarily at just happiness, we will get neither. I pray that as you seek to make God the center of your marriage that you will grow closer to him and each other and that our marriage devotional book will encourage you to reflect the gospel to each other as you seek to serve Him in and through your marriage. In Him, Kathy Keller Request 'A Couple's Devotional' Now Copyright © 2024 Gospel in Life / Redeemer City to City, All rights reserved. Our mailing address is: Gospel in Life / Redeemer City to City PO Box 1696 Long Island City, NY 11101 USA

The howler monkeys of Belize

They howl at any time during the night. This time at 1am

Recorded from my bedroom

Shalom
Raymond Dueck?

Testing

 Does this post to Martha?

Stonewall New Life Church

Pastor Rusty: www.NewLifeStoneWall.com 

Imagine there's no heaven

https://youtu.be/YkgkThdzX-8

The world is a deeply broken place. It's a struggle. At 42 I'm having a midlife crisis. Now going downhill. 

Why is the world the way it is? 

Sin mars everyone everything

They had joy hearing God's voice and then they hid after they sinned. They were now angry at God. You God are at fault for putting this woman here. 

Man has now become a judge of others and themselves. Shame. Feeling bad about what you are. Broken self image. 

The place that was supposed to be a place of harmony became a place of alienation. 

You have become at war with creation. Nothing escaped the corruption of sin. Pain and toil are now part of life. You will die. 

Not now? They died spiritually. Romans 5:12. Through Adam we have been made sinners. 

An apple tree bears apples because it's an apple tree. 

We are by nature sinful. I'm an impatient person. Bumper to bumper traffic on the 401 showed me that I'm an impatient person. 

Genesis 3 is the saddest chapter in the Bible. God did not abandon the world. He sent his Son to redeem the human race to adopt us to sonship. 

Jesus crushed Satan. 

God made you alive with him. God provided clothing from the skin of an animal. The first death. It's the foretelling of Jesus death. 

Now we get more than a second chance. We are God's handiwork created to do good stuff. Ephesians 2:10. God will make you alive. Take away the heart of stone and give us a heart of flesh. Ezekiel 36:26

What does this mean for us? Try hard? We can't. No one is righteous enough. We can trust that God is at work in us. 

We can say look at what has come to the world. 

Revelation 21:1-4 new heaven and a new earth. Every tear wiped away. That's what is to come. No more death. 

New Christian said to be in the Life Group I feel I can just be me. Harmony is being restored. 

BLESSINGS!

Raymond Dueck
LifeLight Founding President